MATURITY IS NOT BY AGE

MATURITY: NOT BY AGE.

  Maturity is not measured by age. It is an attitudes built by experience. Sometimes we can See adult showing less signs of mental or emotional maturity and similarly there children showing very good mental or emotional maturity.

With this we could define MATURITY as having or showing the mental and emotional qualities of an adult. Or making the right choices and knowing wrong from right. It means ability to think, speak and acts your feelings within the bound of DIGNITY.

    Age is does not define maturity, there are many adults who cannot handle simple situation, behave well, talkless, they laugh loudly, shout anyhow, e.t.c. because they are not matured mentally. Maturity is attained by experience, it is completely dependent on the kind of experience a person has in his/her life which is not really related to his age.

Maturity has do with everything about you, your behaviour, conversation with people, manner of approach, your attitude towards people, your dressing.e.t.c

   showing the following qualities can be identified as a matured person

1.Manners; people who are matured try not to annoy/ hurt others by their behavior or manner. He comport himself, they possess the magic words (THANK YOU, PLEASE, EXCUSE ME, SORRY AND PARDON ME).

2. Think before they acts; matured people do not react immediately to criticise or hash behavior of others, very discipline.

3. Handling the people and situations; matured people try to handle hard situations and rude people in a matured way.PROVERBS 16:20

    Many other things such as the way of judging, listening to others advice if acceptable, learning from mistakes, not pretending to be nice but actually being nice, always accept his wrongs and apologise, spend their time wisely,

   Matured people are reaponsible, respectful, humble, talkless, do things in order. That is why they are Sometimes address as OLD MAN or OLD WOMAN because of the signs of maturity they exhibit through their speech, actions, dressing .e.t.c.

Remember that As a CHRISTIAN, the measure of your maturity is how spiritual you become during the midst of your frustration.

   My advice to the youths is that they should be  MATURED in anything we do even in the things of GOD.

BE MATURED.

"Maturity is not by age but the acceptance of your responsibility.